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\u00c7OCUKLARIMIZIN GELECE\u011e\u0130NE\u00a0SAH\u0130P \u00c7IKALIM,\u00a0 HAKLARINI G\u00dcVENCE ALTINA ALALIM.<\/p>\n
AKP 15 y\u0131ll\u0131k siyasi iktidar\u0131 d\u00f6neminde hayat\u0131 ve g\u00fcndelik ya\u015fam\u0131 yeniden bi\u00e7imlendirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131.\u00a0 Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te hayat\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmenin, islami esaslara uyumlu duruma getirmenin alanlar\u0131ndan birisi \u00e7ocuklar ve kad\u0131nlar oldu. Kad\u0131n cinayetlerindeki duyars\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra cezas\u0131zl\u0131k, ceza indirimi, karakol a\u015famas\u0131nda erke\u011fi kollama-\u015fiddeti ola\u011fanla\u015ft\u0131rma-bar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rma uygulamalar\u0131na s\u0131kl\u0131kla tan\u0131k olduk.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuk ya\u015flarda evlenmeyi me\u015frula\u015ft\u0131rma ve te\u015fvik politikalar\u0131; ana okullar\u0131, kre\u015flerde ve kamu okullar\u0131nda uygulanan din bilgisi m\u00fcfredatlar\u0131na yans\u0131d\u0131. Toplumsal ve aile ya\u015fam\u0131nda en b\u00fcy\u00fck zarar\u0131 kad\u0131nlar ve \u00e7ocuklar g\u00f6rd\u00fc. Toplumun gelece\u011fi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z ve onlar\u0131 do\u011furan annelerimiz\u00a0 g\u00fcndelik ya\u015famda, \u00a0i\u015fte, evde, e\u011fitimde, yurtlarda,\u00a0 gerici, y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131, \u015fiddet politikalar\u0131yla fiziksel ve ruhsal olarak \u00f6rselendi. Aile i\u00e7i \u015fiddetten en \u00e7ok ta \u00e7ocuklar etkilendiler, paylar\u0131na d\u00fc\u015feni ya\u015fad\u0131lar. Aile i\u00e7inde, tarikat yurtlar\u0131nda s\u0131byan mekteplerinde bedenleri k\u00f6t\u00fcye kullan\u0131ld\u0131, \u00e7ocukluklar\u0131- d\u00fc\u015fleri-masumiyetleri hoyrat\u00e7a k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131..<\/p>\n
\u0130ktidar destekli vak\u0131flar, tarikatlar, cemaatlerle ili\u015fkili yoksul aile \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n; ya\u015fam alan\u0131 yurtlarda, s\u0131byan mekteplerinde \u00e7ocuklara \u015fiddet ve \u00a0istismar artarken;\u00a0\u00a0 \u201cbaban\u0131n k\u0131z\u0131na \u015fehvet duymas\u0131 haram de\u011fil\u201d fetvas\u0131yla ensesti, \u201ck\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn r\u0131zas\u0131\u201d ve \u2018\u2019bademleme\u2019\u2019\u00a0 s\u00f6ylemiyle\u00a0 tacizi- tecav\u00fcz\u00fc aklayan a\u00e7\u0131klamalar, yaz\u0131l\u0131 ve g\u00f6rsel yay\u0131nlar yap\u0131ld\u0131. Kad\u0131na y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddet\u00a0\u00a0 \u2018\u2019erkek kad\u0131n\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6vebilir\u2019\u2019 a\u00e7\u0131klamalar\u0131 ile zihinler \u00e7arp\u0131t\u0131l\u0131yor, \u00e7arp\u0131k zihniyetli erkekler cesaretlendiriliyor; \u015fiddet erkek \u015fiddeti cezas\u0131z b\u0131rak\u0131larak, cezai indirimlerle ya da ceza ertelemeleriyle\u00a0 toplumun g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131 \u0130slami referanslara uygun hale getiriliyor. Diyanet \u0130\u015fleri Ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131\u00a0web sitesindeki s\u00f6zl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, yay\u0131nlar\u0131, verdi\u011fi fetvalarla toplumu gericile\u015ftiriyor, kad\u0131n\u0131 toplumsal ya\u015fama kat\u0131lamaz hale getirmeyi kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor.Cumhuriyetle kazan\u0131lm\u0131\u015f kad\u0131n ve \u00e7ocuk haklar\u0131, 1948 Evrensel \u0130nsan Haklar\u0131 Bildirgesi ve\u00a020 Kas\u0131m 1989 tarihinde BM taraf\u0131ndan benimsenen, 2 Eyl\u00fcl 1990 tarihinde de bizde y\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011fe giren \u00c7ocuk Haklar\u0131 Bildirgesi kazan\u0131mlar\u0131 fiilen rafa kald\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f,\u00a0tasfiye edilmi\u015f oluyor.<\/p>\n
Diyanet \u0130\u015fleri Ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n resmi internet sitesinde, Dini Kavramlar S\u00f6zl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnde: \u201c bulu\u011f “\u00e7a\u011f\u0131na ula\u015fmak, yeti\u015fmek, i\u015f gayesine varmak gibi” anlamlara gelen bul\u00fb\u011f, f\u0131k\u0131h terimi olarak, bir kimsenin \u00e7ocukluk d\u00f6nemini bitirip, ergenlik \u00e7a\u011f\u0131na ula\u015fmas\u0131 demektir. Bul\u00fb\u011f \u00e7a\u011f\u0131na ula\u015fan kimseye b\u00e2li\u011f denir. Ergenlik ya\u015f\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fun v\u00fccut yap\u0131s\u0131na ve iklim \u015fartlar\u0131na g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015febilir. \u0130sl\u00e2m hukuk\u00e7ular\u0131nca bul\u00fb\u011f \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n\u0131n alt s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131, erkekler i\u00e7in 12, k\u0131zlar i\u00e7in 9 ya\u015f olarak belirlenmi\u015ftir. Bu ya\u015fa ula\u015ft\u0131ktan sonra erke\u011fin ihtilam olmas\u0131, baba olabilme devresine girmesi; k\u0131z\u0131n da adet g\u00f6rmesi, gebe kalabilme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131na ula\u015fmas\u0131 fiil\u00ee olarak b\u00e2li\u011f olmalar\u0131d\u0131r. Ancak erkek ve k\u0131zlar 15 ya\u015flar\u0131na ula\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131nda, kendilerinde bu erginlik alametleri g\u00f6r\u00fclmese de b\u00e2li\u011f olduklar\u0131na h\u00fckmedilir. Bulu\u011f, ki\u015finin dinen m\u00fckellef say\u0131l\u0131p, yeti\u015fkin insan stat\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6nemdir. Bu \u00e7a\u011fa ula\u015fan ve ak\u0131ll\u0131 olan kimse art\u0131k tam ed\u00e2 ehliyeti kazan\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece, ib\u00e2det, helal ve haram gibi din\u00ee h\u00fck\u00fcmlere muhatap; cez\u00e2\u00ee, mal\u00ee ve hukuk\u00ee y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fcklere ehil olur\u2019\u2019 yaz\u0131yor.<\/p>\n
Diyanet \u0130\u015fleri Ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n bu a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131na g\u00f6re; \u201ck\u0131zlar 9 ya\u015f\u0131nda erkekler 12 ya\u015f\u0131na ula\u015ft\u0131ktan sonra\u00a0 erke\u011fin baba, k\u0131z\u0131n da gebe kalabilmesi ile yeti\u015fkin insan stat\u00fcs\u00fc kazan\u0131r,\u00a0 ibadet,helal,haram gibi dini h\u00fck\u00fcmlere muhatap,ve cezai,mali hukuki y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fcklere sahip olur\u201d deniyor.<\/p>\n
Diyanet \u0130\u015fleri sitesinde nikah\u0131 nas\u0131l a\u00e7\u0131klan\u0131yor, bir de buna bakal\u0131m:<\/p>\n
\u2018\u2019Bulu\u011f \u00e7a\u011f\u0131na eri\u015fmi\u015f kad\u0131n\u0131n velisi olmaks\u0131z\u0131n kendisinin nik\u00e2hlanabilmesi m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmakla birlikte, velisinin de bulunmas\u0131 menduptur. Nik\u00e2h\u0131n sahih olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in, evlenecek ki\u015filerin evlilik engelleri bulunmamal\u0131d\u0131r. \u015eartlar\u0131na uygun olarak ger\u00e7ekle\u015fen evlilik; dinin izin verdi\u011fi \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcler i\u00e7inde e\u015fleri birbirine hel\u00e2l k\u0131lmakta, h\u0131s\u0131m akrabal\u0131\u011f\u0131, nesep, miras, mehir, nafaka gibi hukuk\u00ee sonu\u00e7lar do\u011furmaktad\u0131r. Hukuken tan\u0131nmayan evlilikte, bu sonu\u00e7lar g\u00fcvence alt\u0131na al\u0131namad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, resmen tescil ettirilmeyen evlilik kanunen su\u00e7 oldu\u011fu gibi, dinen de do\u011fru de\u011fildir.\u2019\u2019<\/p>\n
\u201c9 ya\u015f\u0131nda bulu\u011f \u00e7a\u011f\u0131na ermi\u015f k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu yeti\u015fkin stat\u00fcs\u00fc kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in nikahlanmas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u201d diyor. Ayr\u0131ca velisi olmadan da nikahlanabilmesi m\u00fcmk\u00fcn g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyor. 9 Ya\u015f\u0131ndaki k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funun evlenebilece\u011fini, cezai ehliyete sahip oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemek insani de\u011ferler a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan de evrensel hukuk a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan da su\u00e7tur.<\/p>\n
Siyasi iktidar\u0131n e\u011fitim sisteminde\u00a011 Nisan 2012’de ”\u0130lk\u00f6\u011fretim ve E\u011fitim Kanunu ile Baz\u0131 Kanunlarda De\u011fi\u015fiklik Yap\u0131lmas\u0131na Dair Kanun” ad\u0131yla Resmi Gazete’de yay\u0131mlanarak y\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011fe koydu\u011fu\u00a0de\u011fi\u015fiklikle k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 4+4+4 e\u011fitim sistemi ile erken okuldan ayr\u0131lmas\u0131yla k\u0131rsal alanlar\u00a0 ba\u015fta olmak \u00fczere \u00e7ocuk ya\u015fta evliliklerin yolu da a\u00e7\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n
2 Aral\u0131k 2017 de Resmi Gazete\u2019de yay\u0131nlanarak y\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011fe giren y\u00f6netmelikle\u00a0\u0130\u00e7i\u015fleri Bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131,\u00a0il ve il\u00e7e m\u00fcft\u00fcl\u00fcklerine de\u00a0evlendirme memurlu\u011fu g\u00f6rev ve yetkisi veriyor, yetkiyi kullanacaklar da Bakanl\u0131k\u00e7a belirlenecek..\u00a0Yak\u0131n zamanda her d\u00fczeyde din g\u00f6revlisinin nikah k\u0131yma yetkisi alabilece\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcl\u00fcrse k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n erken evlendirilmesi, r\u0131za d\u0131\u015f\u0131 evliliklerin de yayg\u0131nla\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylemek zor olmasa gerektir.<\/p>\n
Toplumsal ya\u015famda laisizmi savunmadan ve ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirilmesi i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele etmeden \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, yani gelece\u011finizi \u00a0koruyamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131r. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131 ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n haklar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcvenceye al\u0131nmas\u0131n\u0131n yolu laisizmin ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmesidir. Din, devlet i\u015flerinden ger\u00e7ek anlamda ayr\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Devletin dinsel kurumlara, vak\u0131flara, derneklere parasal deste\u011fi kesilmelidir.<\/p>\n
Kamu kaynaklar\u0131 \u201cyeni paralel\u201d cemaatlere, vak\u0131flara, siyasi iktidara yanda\u015f derneklere (Ensar Vakf\u0131, T\u00dcRGEV, T\u00dcGVA, Anadolu Gen\u00e7lik Derne\u011fi..vb) a\u00e7\u0131lmamal\u0131, bu vak\u0131flarla sosyal, k\u00fclt\u00fcrel, sportif, mesleki ve teknik kurslar a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131 kapsam\u0131nda d\u00fczenlenen protokoller iptal edilmelidir.<\/p>\n
Diyanet \u0130\u015fleri ve siyasi iktidara yanda\u015f vak\u0131f gibi ara\u00e7larla e\u011fitimin dinci karakter kazanmas\u0131 giri\u015fimlerine son verilmelidir. \u0130nan\u00e7 ve ibadetin politikan\u0131n arac\u0131 olarak istismar\u0131 \u00f6nlenmeli ve herkes i\u00e7in din, vicdan ve ibadet \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc g\u00fcvence alt\u0131\u00adna al\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Bu talepler i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele etmeliyiz. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n din \u00fczerinden istismar edilmelerine, \u00e7ocuk evliliklerine, k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n itaatkar cinsel k\u00f6lelere d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fclmesine izin vermeyece\u011fiz. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za sahip \u00e7\u0131kmal\u0131 g\u00fcndelik ya\u015fam\u0131n gericile\u015ftirilmesine, dinselle\u015ftirilmesine barikat olu\u015fturmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n
Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n gelece\u011finin karart\u0131lmas\u0131na izin vermeyelim. Birlikte g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc m\u00fccadele, dayan\u0131\u015fma her t\u00fcr engeli a\u015facak g\u00fc\u00e7tedir.<\/p>\n
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\u00c7OCUKLARIMIZIN GELECE\u011e\u0130NE\u00a0SAH\u0130P \u00c7IKALIM,\u00a0 HAKLARINI G\u00dcVENCE ALTINA ALALIM. AKP 15 y\u0131ll\u0131k siyasi iktidar\u0131 d\u00f6neminde hayat\u0131 ve g\u00fcndelik ya\u015fam\u0131 yeniden bi\u00e7imlendirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131.\u00a0 Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te hayat\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmenin, islami esaslara uyumlu duruma getirmenin alanlar\u0131ndan birisi \u00e7ocuklar ve kad\u0131nlar oldu. Kad\u0131n cinayetlerindeki duyars\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra cezas\u0131zl\u0131k, ceza indirimi, karakol a\u015famas\u0131nda erke\u011fi kollama-\u015fiddeti ola\u011fanla\u015ft\u0131rma-bar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rma uygulamalar\u0131na s\u0131kl\u0131kla tan\u0131k olduk. \u00c7ocuk ya\u015flarda … <\/p>\n