{"id":2369,"date":"2021-05-20T22:42:04","date_gmt":"2021-05-20T19:42:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/izmir.imece-der.com\/?p=2369"},"modified":"2021-05-20T22:45:24","modified_gmt":"2021-05-20T19:45:24","slug":"istanbul-sozlesmesinden-vazgecmiyoruz-izmir-kampanya-grubu-4-nobetini-gerceklestirdi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.imece-der.com\/?p=2369","title":{"rendered":"\u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesinden Vazge\u00e7miyoruz \u0130zmir Kampanya Grubu 4. n\u00f6betini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdi."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/izmir.imece-der.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/WhatsApp-Image-2021-05-20-at-21.02.58.jpeg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-2370\" src=\"http:\/\/izmir.imece-der.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/WhatsApp-Image-2021-05-20-at-21.02.58-1024x576.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"750\" height=\"422\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.imece-der.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/WhatsApp-Image-2021-05-20-at-21.02.58-1024x576.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/www.imece-der.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/WhatsApp-Image-2021-05-20-at-21.02.58-300x169.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.imece-der.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/WhatsApp-Image-2021-05-20-at-21.02.58-768x432.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.imece-der.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/WhatsApp-Image-2021-05-20-at-21.02.58-1536x864.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/www.imece-der.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/WhatsApp-Image-2021-05-20-at-21.02.58.jpeg 1600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u0130zmir Kampanya Grubu &#8220;\u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesinden Vaz ge\u00e7miyoruz&#8221; talebiyle\u00a0 n\u00f6bet eylemini Alsancak T\u00fcrkan Saylan K\u00fclt\u00fcr merkezi \u00f6n\u00fcnde ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdi. Saat 18.30 da ba\u015flayan n\u00f6bet eyleminde kampanya grubu ad\u0131na yap\u0131lan konu\u015fmalarda erkek egemen sistem i\u00e7inde \u015fiddet kullanan erke\u011fin devlet mekanizmalar\u0131nca korundu\u011fu, cezas\u0131z kald\u0131\u011f\u0131, bunun kad\u0131n cinayetlerinin devam\u0131na yol a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 belirtildi.<\/p>\n<p>Her g\u00fcn en az bir kad\u0131n\u0131n, bazen birka\u00e7 kad\u0131n\u0131n katledildi\u011fi \u00fclkemizde, \u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi\u2019nin \u015fiddet g\u00f6ren t\u00fcm bireyleri koruyan hukuk \u015femsiyesi i\u015flevi g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc belirtilen konu\u015fmalarda, n\u00f6bete kat\u0131lanlar, bir gecede, bir tek ki\u015finin tasarrufuyla bu s\u00f6zle\u015fmeden \u00e7ekilmeyi kabul etmeyeceklerini belirttiler.<\/p>\n<p>Katledilen kad\u0131nlar\u0131n isimleri okundu\u011funda \u201ckatledilen kad\u0131nlar isyan\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r\u201d slogan\u0131 atan grup kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131 kad\u0131n katliamlar\u0131n\u0131n da trans cinayetlerinin de politik oldu\u011funu hayk\u0131rd\u0131lar.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc n\u00f6bet olan etkinlikte , Arzu Odaba\u015f ve Edibe G\u00f6\u00e7er\u2019in cinayet ve ya\u015fam \u00f6yk\u00fclerine de yer verildi.<\/p>\n<p>Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00d6yk\u00fclerinin\u00a0 anlat\u0131lmas\u0131\u00a0 aralar\u0131nda &#8220;Erkek Adalet De\u011fil Ger\u00e7ek Adalet&#8221;, &#8220;Ya\u015famak \u0130stiyoruz&#8221;, &#8220;\u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesinden Vaz ge\u00e7miyoruz&#8221;, &#8220;Kad\u0131n Cinayetleri Politiktir&#8221;, &#8220;Ya\u015fas\u0131n Kad\u0131n Dayan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131&#8221;, &#8220;Erkek vuruyor, Devlet Koruyor&#8221;,\u00a0 &#8220;Gelsin Baba Gelsin koca,\u00a0 Gelsin Devlet ,\u00a0 Gelsin Cop,\u00a0 \u0130nad\u0131na \u0130syan \u0130nad\u0131na isyan, \u0130nad\u0131na \u00d6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck&#8221; , &#8220;D\u00fcnya Yeriden Oynar Kad\u0131nlar \u00d6zg\u00fcr Olsa&#8221; sloganlar\u0131n\u0131\u00a0 atarak, S\u00f6zle\u015fmeye kararl\u0131l\u0131kla sahip \u00e7\u0131kacaklar\u0131n\u0131 ifade ettiler\u00a0 Etkinlikte okunan\u00a0 Arzu Odaba\u015f\u2019\u0131n\u00a0 \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fc \u015f\u00f6yle;<\/p>\n<p>\u201cArzu Odaba\u015f\u00a0 (C.T 25.02.2011)<\/p>\n<p>Ben Arzu Odaba\u015f, ya\u015fasayd\u0131m 53 ya\u015f\u0131nda olacakt\u0131m bug\u00fcn. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131n en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fc 21, en b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fc 32 olacakt\u0131. Hayat\u0131m, gelecek zaman\u0131n hikayesi ile biten fiillere as\u0131l\u0131 kald\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>19 ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131m Mustafa ile evlendi\u011fimde,\u00a0 ilk \u00e7ocu\u011fumu do\u011furdu\u011fumda ise 21. Yedi ya\u015f b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fc benden Mustafa, gemilerde \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131 makinist olarak. Huysuz, sinirli, aksi adam\u0131n tekiydi. Tam 24 y\u0131l katland\u0131m ona. 4 \u00e7ocuk do\u011furdum, d\u00f6rt \u00e7ocuk, bir arzu ve say\u0131s\u0131z dert b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fcm o 24 y\u0131lda.<\/p>\n<p>Bundan 5 y\u0131l \u00f6nce, bundan dedi\u011fim ben katledilmeden \u00f6nce yani, bo\u015fanma davas\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131m \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc\u00a0 Mustafa dayan\u0131lacak gibi de\u011fildi art\u0131k. Hakaretinden, k\u00fcf\u00fcr\u00fcnden, tehditlerinden i\u00e7im, daya\u011f\u0131ndan etim \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. K\u00f6t\u00fclerin hadsiz, iyilerin sessiz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 korkun\u00e7 bir hikayede b\u00fcy\u00fcyordu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m. Mutlu olmak ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n i\u015fiydi sanki, zalim bir Mustafa d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc bizim pay\u0131m\u0131za. Kurtulduk, kurtuluyoruz derken, Mustafa bo\u015fanmaktan vazge\u00e7ti, kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yerden devam ettik o berbat hikayeye. Biraz zaman ge\u00e7ti \u00fczerinden, bakt\u0131m olmayacak, tekrar bo\u015fanma davas\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Mustafa\u2019ya katlanmak, kendimden vazge\u00e7mekti, Mustafa\u2019ya katlanmak \u015fiddetin ortas\u0131nda \u00e7ocuk b\u00fcy\u00fctmekti, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lanmak, ezilmek, s\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fclmek, d\u00f6v\u00fclmekti Mustafa\u2019ya katlanmak. Katlanam\u0131yordum. Bu kez de uzak yak\u0131n akrabalar, aileler, analar, babalar girdi araya. \u201cYuvan\u0131 y\u0131kma dediler, aileni bozma\u201d dediler. Onlara hi\u00e7 s\u00f6ylemedim ama o yuva \u00e7oktan y\u0131k\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 benim ba\u015f\u0131ma, o aile psikolojimi bozmu\u015ftu, kimsenin umurunda de\u011fildi bunlar, herkes kendi rahat\u0131na zeval gelmesin istiyordu. Dedim ya, u\u011fra\u015fmak zordu Mustafa&#8217;yla. De\u011fil ayn\u0131 evde ya\u015famak, ayn\u0131 kald\u0131r\u0131mda denk gelmek bile istemezdiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Oluru yoktu, art\u0131k katlanam\u0131yordum. Katlana katlana k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc, aynada kendimi g\u00f6remiyordum.\u00a0 ald\u0131m \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131, evi\u00a0 terk ettim. Dayak yemeden ve hakarete u\u011framadan ya\u015famak i\u00e7in kimseden izin alacak de\u011fildim; ne aileden ne devletten. Bir s\u00fcre sakinledi hayat\u0131m\u0131z, babam \u00dcmraniye\u2019den ev ald\u0131 bize, demek anlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131 sonunda i\u00e7inde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m cehennemi, demek art\u0131k yan\u0131k et kokuyordu her yan\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Evimiz vard\u0131, \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p bakabilirdim \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ma, ne biz kimseye y\u00fck olurduk b\u00f6ylece ne de hayat bize. Anaokullar\u0131nda \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m, i\u015fyerlerinde, ofislerde. Yemek yap\u0131yordum. f\u0131rsat bulduk\u00e7a temizli\u011fe gidiyordum. Kimseye muhta\u00e7 de\u011fildik. Kimseye boyun e\u011fmiyorduk. Kurban\u0131n kurtar\u0131c\u0131ya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc bir hikayede mutlu bile say\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131k, yalan yok.<\/p>\n<p>Uzun s\u00fcrmedi tabi, Mustafa \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 geldi, i\u015fe gidip gelirken takip etmeye ba\u015flad\u0131 beni, yine ba\u015flad\u0131 hakaretleri, k\u00fcf\u00fcrler, en sonunda silah \u00e7ekti, ya\u015fatmam seni dedi bana. Zul\u00fcms\u00fcz bir hayat kurmam\u0131z\u0131 istemiyordu, k\u00f6lesini kaybeden bir efendi gibi. Hadi kendimi ge\u00e7tim, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n bile mutlu olmas\u0131n\u0131 istemiyordu Mustafa.<\/p>\n<p>O zaman do\u011fruca polise gittim, \u015fikayet\u00e7i oldum, \u015eikayet konusu \u2018Silahla tehdit, hakaret ve \u015fiddet\u2019 yazan bir ka\u011f\u0131da imza att\u0131m, su\u00e7 duyurusuna bulundum. Devlete \u015fikayet etmi\u015ftim art\u0131k Mustafa\u2019y\u0131. Ben u\u011fra\u015fam\u0131yordum, ben hakk\u0131ndan gelemiyorum, ben b\u00f6yle bir hayat istemiyordum. \u0130stedi\u011fim gibisini de kurmu\u015ftum \u00e7ok \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr, Mustafa g\u00f6lge etmesin, ederse de devlet kolundan tutup onu g\u00fcne\u015fimden \u00e7eksin istiyordum.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6nce 9 ay hapis cezas\u0131 ald\u0131 Mustafa, karar\u0131 duyunca az da olsa rahata ereriz gibi geldi ama hemen para hapis cezas\u0131n\u0131 hemen paraya\u00a0 \u00e7eviriverdi mahkeme; \u201c ne kadar safs\u0131n k\u0131z\u0131m Arzu\u201d dedim hatta kendime, devlet Mustafalar\u0131n devleti, arzulara rahat verir mi?\u00a0 Vermedi, bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc bo\u015fanamad\u0131k mesela, onca dayak, onca \u015fiddet, onca i\u015fkence o \u00e7ok sa\u011flam aileyi devirmeye bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc yetmedi. Hala, her davada \u00f6l\u00fcm tehditleri savurmaya devam ediyordu Mustafa, biz yine de kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yerden, kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kadar devam ediyorduk ya\u015famaya.<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u011fmurlu gecenin r\u00fczgarl\u0131 sabah\u0131yd\u0131 o g\u00fcn. Her detay\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ok iyi hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum, F\u0131rt\u0131na uyar\u0131s\u0131 yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 bir adam televizyonda, arkas\u0131nda her yerinden oklar ge\u00e7en bir harita, 8 derece demi\u015fti s\u0131cakl\u0131k i\u00e7in, Emirhan\u2019a bakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m, acaba \u00fcst\u00fc biraz ince miydi?<\/p>\n<p>Evden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131k, \u00e7ocu\u011fu okula b\u0131rakt\u0131m, \u00f6pt\u00fcm, sar\u0131ld\u0131m ayr\u0131l\u0131rken, \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015fta gelir al\u0131r dedim, yalan s\u00f6yledi\u011fimi bilmeden. O g\u00fcn bir \u015farj\u00f6r kur\u015funla \u00f6ld\u00fcrd\u00fc beni mustafa. \u00d6ld\u00fcrd\u00fc ve ko\u015farak ka\u00e7maya ba\u015flad\u0131, beni hastaneye kald\u0131rd\u0131lar bo\u015f bir umutla. Art\u0131k \u00e7arem yoktu, doktorlar ne yaparsa yaps\u0131n \u00f6lecektim. defalarca karakola gitti\u011fimde, \u015fikayet etti\u011fimde, dava a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131mda vard\u0131 mesela \u00e7arem, \u00e7are olan olmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ama.<\/p>\n<p>Ben Arzu Odaba\u015f, bo\u015fanmak istedi\u011fim Mustafa Odaba\u015f taraf\u0131ndan 25 \u015eubat 2011 de K\u0131s\u0131kl\u0131\u2019da, sokak ortas\u0131nda katledildim. Hava 8 dereceydi o g\u00fcn, Emirhan\u2019\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fc biraz ince gibiydi, onu okuldan kim ald\u0131 bilmiyorum.<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fasayd\u0131m ben al\u0131rd\u0131m. Ya\u015fasayd\u0131m,\u00a0 &#8220;Y\u0131llar\u0131n birikimi vard\u0131 i\u00e7imde. Kar\u015f\u0131ma \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. K\u00fcf\u00fcr etti. Zaten \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131 da g\u00f6remiyordum. O sinirle vurdum&#8221; diyen Mustafa\u2019ya g\u00f6zlerimden belli olan bir mide bulant\u0131s\u0131yla bakar, yalanc\u0131 derdim. Ya\u015fasayd\u0131m, ama \u0130stanbul\u2019da ama burada,\u00a0 \u015fimdi sizin aran\u0131zda olurdum, erkek adalet de\u011fil ger\u00e7ek adalet diye ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131rd\u0131m\u00a0 k\u0131z karde\u015flerim, dostlar\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fasayd\u0131m, hayat\u0131m Mustafalardan ve Mustafalar\u0131n devletinden de\u011ferlidir derdim.<\/p>\n<p>Ben\u00a0 Arzu Odaba\u015f, bir erkek taraf\u0131ndan katledildim, unutmay\u0131n beni \u201c<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cBen Edibe G\u00f6\u00e7er<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201cMERS\u0130N\u2019in Tarsus \u0130l\u00e7esi\u2019nde, 47 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Mustafa G\u00f6\u00e7er, tarlada \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p aile b\u00fct\u00e7esine katk\u0131da bulunmak isteyen e\u015fi Edibe G\u00f6\u00e7er\u2019i ve\u00a0 ile annesini korumak i\u00e7in araya giren o\u011flu Remzi G\u00f6\u00e7er\u2019i tabancayla vurarak \u00f6ld\u00fcrd\u00fc.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>B\u00f6yle yazd\u0131 bizi gazeteler. Yine b\u00f6yle bir may\u0131s ay\u0131yd\u0131, s\u0131cak inmemi\u015fti hen\u00fcz, neredeyse sabah seriniydi sokak. 39 Ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131m \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde; \u00f6yle o may\u0131s gibi g\u00fczel, yaz gibi s\u0131cak. O\u011flum Remzi 16\u2019yd\u0131 hen\u00fcz; t\u0131pk\u0131 o sabah gibi taze. Ya\u015fatmad\u0131 Mustafa bizi, bir g\u00fcn\u00fc, bir mevsimi, bir \u00f6mr\u00fc \u00e7ok g\u00f6rd\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>Tar\u0131mda \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131k Mustafa\u2019yla. Meyveye giderdik daha \u00e7ok. Muza limona, \u00e7ile\u011fe bademe\u2026 ne denk gelirse ona ko\u015fard\u0131k. Zordu hayat, hayat hep zordur zaten.\u00a0 4 \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz vard\u0131, 4 a\u00e7 a\u011f\u0131z, 4 bo\u015f mide, 4 hayat vard\u0131 doyurulmas\u0131 gereken, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131p ne yapacakt\u0131m?<\/p>\n<p>Tarladan tarlaya gitmekle, mevsimden mevsime bi\u00e7mekle ge\u00e7ti \u00f6mr\u00fcm\u00fcz, benim \u00f6mr\u00fcm yar\u0131da kalacakm\u0131\u015f, Remzi\u2019mim ki ba\u015flamadan bitecekmi\u015f me\u011fer, bilemedim.<\/p>\n<p>Bir kamyon alal\u0131m demi\u015fti Mustafa, tarlaya i\u015f\u00e7i g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcm, eve ekmek getiririm, nefesimizi daha geni\u015f al\u0131r\u0131z demi\u015fti,\u00a0 do\u011fruydu da dedi\u011fi. Mersin\u2019in s\u0131ca\u011f\u0131ndan de\u011filse de ate\u015f pahas\u0131 hayattan dard\u0131 nefesimiz. Sonunda ald\u0131k kamyonu. Ald\u0131k ama kamyon bizim de\u011fil hala, kasas\u0131 a\u011fz\u0131nla bir bor\u00e7 dolu. \u00c7al\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131z da \u00f6deyece\u011fiz de borcu bitecek de, kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bize kalacak da ancak \u00f6yle geni\u015fleyecek nefesimiz. Benimki hepten daralacakm\u0131\u015f, bilemedim, Remzi\u2019min ci\u011ferleri tazecikken solacakm\u0131\u015f me\u011fer.<\/p>\n<p>Mustafa tutturdu, sen tarlada \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma Edibe. E ben nerede \u00e7al\u0131\u015fay\u0131m Mustafa? i\u015ften i\u015f be\u011fenmiyorum sanki. Yok dedi\u00a0 Mustafa, sen hi\u00e7 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma. Olmaz dedim. \u00c7ocuklar var, her ak\u015fam 6 bo\u015f tabak var masada, her sabah yine ayn\u0131 bo\u015f tabaklar. Okullar\u0131 var, k\u0131yafetleri var, kimine kitap, kimine ayakkab\u0131, kimine oyuncak, kimine har\u00e7l\u0131k laz\u0131m ve hepsi de ayn\u0131 anda laz\u0131m. Ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir kamyon, onun da kasas\u0131 a\u011fz\u0131yla bir bor\u00e7. M\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil dedim Mustafa\u2019ya. Bug\u00fcne kadar nas\u0131l \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131ysam, nas\u0131l topraktan \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131ysam ekme\u011fimi, o d\u00f6rt \u00e7ocu\u011fu \u015f\u00f6yle tam tam doyuramasam da nas\u0131l b\u00fct\u00fcn b\u00fct\u00fcn a\u00e7 b\u0131rakmad\u0131ysam, yine \u00f6yle Mustafa dedim, hi\u00e7 olmazsa bor\u00e7 azalana kadar \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131m. Olmaz dedi Mustafa. Olmaz deyip susmad\u0131 tabi;\u00a0 kavga k\u0131yamet, tufan evin i\u00e7i. Dinledim, dinledim, dinledim ve kendime hak verdim. Bir i\u015f\u00e7i ta\u015f\u0131mayla m\u00fcmk\u00fcn\u00fc yok olmazd\u0131. Kamyon kendi borcunu \u00f6dese biz ne yiyecektik, bizim karn\u0131m\u0131z doysa, kamyona ne kalacakt\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>O sabah, yine uyand\u0131m sabah\u0131n k\u00f6r\u00fcnde, g\u00fcne\u015f bile benden sonra a\u00e7ard\u0131 g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc, haz\u0131rland\u0131m tarlaya gitmek i\u00e7in. Nereye, dedi Mustafa. Tarladan ba\u015fka gitti\u011fim bir yer vard\u0131 sanki, i\u015fe dedim, tarlaya. Hi\u00e7 unutmam yeni d\u00fcnya mevsimiydi, umuda benzer bir \u015fey gelirdi i\u00e7ime yeni d\u00fcnya a\u011fa\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce. Ne g\u00fczeldi ad\u0131 yeni d\u00fcnyan\u0131n; bo\u015fa de\u011filmi\u015f me\u011fer onu sevmem, bizim meyveden ba\u015fka yeni d\u00fcnyam\u0131z olamayacakm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f6z vermi\u015ftin, gitmeyecektin dedi. Gitmeden olmaz dedim, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmadan olmaz. Paras\u0131z olmaz. S\u00f6z verdin, dedi yine sustum. S\u00f6z verdi\u011fim de yoktu. Ba\u011f\u0131ra \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ra kavga etmi\u015f, s\u00f6z vereceksin tamam m\u0131 diye \u00fczerime y\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc son kavgada, ben de o darlanmayla tamam deyivermi\u015ftim. Hem\u00a0 neden \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmayacakt\u0131m? Bu beden, bu karar, bu hayat benim de\u011fil miydi? Neden Mustafa\u2019n\u0131n i\u00e7i rahat etsin diye a\u00e7l\u0131\u011fa raz\u0131 olacakt\u0131m?<\/p>\n<p>Bak Mustafa dedim, ben \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmazsam olmaz, s\u0131rf i\u015f\u00e7i ta\u015f\u0131mayla olmaz, beraber \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmam\u0131z laz\u0131m, s\u0131rf seninle olmaz. Sinire kesti Mustafa, ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015f, hakaret, k\u00fcf\u00fcr, kavga k\u0131yamet. O seslere uyand\u0131 Remzi, yapma etme dedi babas\u0131na, \u00f6yle bo\u015flukta yok olup gitti sesi, kendi \u00f6fkesini kusmaktan o\u011flunu duymad\u0131 bile Mustafa. \u00c7\u0131kay\u0131m da gideyim dedim. Siniri diner ak\u015fama, oturur konu\u015furuz tekrar, bir \u00e7aresini buluruz dedim, Yan\u0131lm\u0131\u015f\u0131m. O g\u00fcn bize ak\u015fam olmayacakm\u0131\u015f me\u011fer. Biz Remzi\u2019mle, hep o sabah\u0131n i\u00e7inde sonsuza kadar kalacakm\u0131\u015f\u0131z ana o\u011ful.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6nce ben \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131m evden, ard\u0131mdan Remzi geldi. Mustafa yoktu ard\u0131m\u0131zda, galiba elini tuttum Remzi\u2019nin, tutmamla b\u0131rakmam bir oldu, ayak seslerini duyduk \u00f6nce, d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131k, elinde silah\u0131 bize do\u011fru geliyordu Mustafa. Silah\u0131n\u0131 bana do\u011frulttu, \u00f6ylece bakakalm\u0131\u015f\u0131m, insan\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funa sahip \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131 su\u00e7tu demek, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak su\u00e7tu, kendi eme\u011fine kendi karar vermesi su\u00e7tu. Remzi girdi araya, ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015flar duydum. Sen \u00e7ekil o\u011flum dedi Mustafa, \u00e7ekilmedi Remzi, bir an bile teredd\u00fct etmeden kendini siper etti bana. Kur\u015funlar ya\u011fd\u0131 bedenine, ko\u015fsam sarsam o\u011flumu, kan\u0131n\u0131 avu\u00e7 avu\u00e7 geri koysam, y\u00fcz\u00fcne baksam, kalk deyiversem Remzi\u2019ye, ge\u00e7ti gitti hadi kalk, Yeni D\u00fcnya\u2019ya gidelim desem\u2026 diyemedim. kalan kur\u015funu bana boca etti Mustafa, Remzi\u2019nin yan\u0131na d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm, yeni d\u00fcnyalar a\u011fa\u00e7ta kald\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Ben Edibe G\u00f6\u00e7er, Beni Mustafa G\u00f6\u00e7er \u00f6ld\u00fcrd\u00fc. Beni erkekli\u011fi her \u015feyden \u00fcstte g\u00f6ren bu d\u00fczen \u00f6ld\u00fcrd\u00fc. Beni kad\u0131na s\u00f6z hakk\u0131 tan\u0131mayan bu devlet, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na izin vermeyen bu erkeklik \u00f6ld\u00fcrd\u00fc. Kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131nca \u00f6fkeli,\u00a0 kur\u015funlarken cesaretli, i\u015f hesab\u0131n\u0131 vermeye\u00a0 gelince korkak, bu k\u0131r\u0131lgan erkeklik \u00f6ld\u00fcrd\u00fc beni.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMERS\u0130N\u2019in Tarsus \u0130l\u00e7esi\u2019nde 47 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Mustafa G\u00f6\u00e7er, tarlada \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p aile b\u00fct\u00e7esine katk\u0131da bulunmak isteyen e\u015fi Edibe G\u00f6\u00e7er\u2019i ve\u00a0 ile annesini korumak i\u00e7in araya giren o\u011flu Remzi G\u00f6\u00e7er\u2019i tabancayla vurarak \u00f6ld\u00fcrd\u00fc.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bizi b\u00f6yle yazd\u0131 gazeteler i\u00e7 sayfalar\u0131na, 14 may\u0131s\u2019t\u0131. D\u00fcnya \u00c7ift\u00e7iler g\u00fcn\u00fc kutlu olsun diye tarla resimleri koydular ilk sayfalar\u0131na. 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